A few run-ins and misunderstandings with friends recently disturbed me, as I reflected on our differing perspectives and realities. How could I not see all these coming? How could I not realize how they were reading the situation and their feelings about it? I could possibly try and side step this by constructing it as… Continue reading Living in a bubble
Recently, I not only had the chance to read Henry David Thoreau’s Battle of the Ants, but also to study the text closely, unravelling how the author expresses his disdain for wars by showing the futility of wars through a hyperbolic presentation of the “battle” between red and black ants and comparing this to the… Continue reading The war of life
This week, I have been incredibly inspired by a friend’s post on motherhood “It doesn’t get easier” and I think what she shares also applies to life in general. Each (growing) phase brings new set of challenges that would always stumble us initially, though we will eventually find our way, our way out of the… Continue reading The busyness trap
Contrary to popular belief, the break that I was expecting did not arrive. Yes, I stopped working full-time. No, my part-time work was not all consuming. So, did something go wrong? Well, not quite. I will share why here and I think many would identify with this. The trouble with most of us is, we… Continue reading Reality check
Before I stopped working full-time, I gave very little thought to my expenditure on food. My thoughts on food were centered on personal preferences and health impact e.g. calories and nutritional value. My favorite dining places include Din Tai Feng, Cedele, Sushi Tei and My Grandma’s Cuisine where I knew I could get a quick,… Continue reading Taking food seriously
Moving into the 4th day of my break, I am beginning to realize many people are genuinely surprised by my decision to leave my job. However, this should really not come as a surprise because I have been talking about doing this for the longest time. That said, I can also understand why people around… Continue reading Why did I leave my job?
After a long teaching day, I left school for dinner with friends. For the first time in a long while, I did not feel compelled to hurry. I have informed fellow diners ahead of time that I would be late due to work commitments and I was near enough to the dinner venue to be… Continue reading An unhurried journey